I’ve been in this business for a very long time, and one of
the most enduring labels our industry has is that we are just a big
dysfunctional family.
Well, that stereotype couldn’t be farther from, and closer
to, the truth.
One such example here at Buck’s T-4 was a couple by the name
of Ken and Kaysha Carpenter.
The two of them came to us almost four years ago, a husband
and wife looking for a new start. They were running a diner in the Williston
Basin, feeding, or more like tolerating, a surly crowd working on the
extraction of the Bakken Formation. Day after day, they would dream of leaving
that life. They yearned for a change of scenery from the contradictorily
nascent doldrums of the next best oil boom.
They visited Big Sky when they were able to catch a break
one summer. They were only here a few days. But they always said that the day
they saw this place, they knew they wanted to make it home.
Sure, they had their challenges. And we would laugh about
what a tough business this is. And that after all he had been through, why in
the heck wouldn’t he just create a life mowing lawns somewhere in the sun.
Of all the jobs they held, some long some short, some
challenging some pedestrian, and of all the cities and towns they lived in, and
people they crossed paths with, including Ken’s days in the navy, they often
said that we felt like his family. That Buck’s was his home.
He was always so thankful for everything in his life. It’s
easy to be thankful for the things that, on the surface, enrich our lives.
Things like a great job, a beautiful family, or a genuine and comforting
community.
But Ken knew that it was his hardships and his failures that
taught him his most poignant and useful lessons.
He understood that sometimes you need to suffer in order to
recognize what you do have. To take from one of his favorite movies, “The
Shawshank Redemption,” sometimes you need to crawl through, well, the junk, to
get to the other side. A side ripe for the picking. Once you’ve gained the
wisdom to appreciate, while also not taking for granted, all those little
moments and opportunities that are always right in front of our noses.
While it’s true, most any workplace, work environment or
work culture could make a reasonable argument that they are family—that they
have a bond that allows them to interact like a family. To be able to have the
comfort and confidence in this relationship that they can have the tough
conversations, knowing that when it is over and they leave the room, that their
relationships not only can withstand such a conversation, but may even grow
stronger.
And having been in this business for over three decades,
worked with all ages, all personality types, and to date, people from well over
50 countries, I can tell you that the family culture that this rough and
tumble, high stress, physically fatiguing job creates, rivals those in law
enforcement and firefighting.
I’ve been witness to a co-worker taking another who just had
surgery to the grocery store, giving up a day off to do it. Or an entire
restaurant who pitched in hard earned money so a dishwasher’s son who otherwise
had very little opportunity for such growth and kid time could attend a
week-long summer camp.
We had this conversation often, as we interacted on a daily,
almost hourly basis.
But it was one day, not more than a couple weeks ago, that
will stay with me forever. He joked how lucky he was to be alive after all he
had put his body and mind through, during his darkest times.
We lost Ken, a member of our family, to what we believe was
a massive stroke on the morning of July 23. The day after his birthday. He was
56.
We have a saying at Buck’s, a mantra really, that
relationships matter. Ken’s relationship with the entire Buck’s family was one
every one of us would be grateful to have.
Scott
Mechura has spent a life in the hospitality industry. He is a former certified
beer judge and currently the executive chef at Buck’s T-4 Lodge in Big Sky.
We all are familiar with using a limited palette, but do you use one? Do you know how to use a
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We all are familiar with using a limited palette, but do you use one? Do you know how to use a limited palette to create different color combinations? Are you tired of carrying around 15-20 different tubes when you paint plein air? Have you ever wanted to create a certain “mood” in a painting but failed? Do you create a lot of mud? Do you struggle to achieve color harmony? All these problems are addressed in John’s workbook in clear and concise language!
Based on the bestselling “Limited Palatte, Unlimited Color” workbook written by John Pototschnik, the workshop is run by Maggie Shane and Annie McCoy, accomplished landscape (acrylic) and plein air (oil) artists,exhibitors at the Big Sky Artists’ Studio & Gallery and members of the Big Sky Artists Collective.
Each student will receive a copy of “Limited Palette, Unlimited Color” to keep and take home to continue your limited palette journey. We will show you how to use the color wheel and mix your own clean mixtures to successfully create a mood for your paintings.
Each day, we will create a different limited palette color chart and paint a version of a simple landscape using John’s directives. You will then be able to go home and paint more schemes using the book for guidance.
Workshop is open to painters (oil or acrylic) of any level although students must have some basic knowledge of the medium he or she uses. Students will be provided the book ($92 value), color wheel, value scale and canvas papers to complete the daily exercises.